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What better way to find out about love than to survey the experts? Not the psychology experts—the expert members of couples who have been married 10 years or longer. The surprising findings of this study, reported in the journal Social Psychological and Personality Scienceshowed not only that many people were still in love even after 10 years of marriagebut also which factors predicted the strength of their passion.

As reported by Stony Brook University psychologist K. Rather than being doomed to a bland, mediocre existence, these couples endorsed their positive feelings toward their spouses with hearty dare I say enthusiasm. Another 15 percent gave their marriages the second-highest rating on the love intensity scale. Perhaps even more surprisingly, those who stuck stable long term relationship for 30 years and more also gave their marriages high ratings with 40 stable long term relationship of women and 35 percent of men saying that they were very intensely in love.

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Many of us experience a dip in desire when we settle into a long-term relationship. And because of this, we might even think that time makes. I spent years in the dating pool, searching for a long-term relationship. To get there, I went on hundreds of Tinder dates, encountered. There are reasons, beyond biology, why you want to be in a long-term relationship. Dr. Steve shares ten wins that time gave him.

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This article like most of the articles in this magazine on romantic relationships tends towards the idea, based on tradition rather than science it seems, that the right way in romance is to find the right partner and settle down together for the whole rest of your lives or at least many years, and that if people are miserable doing that then they should work harder on the relationship or try harder next time to find the right person.

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